Showing posts with label judging others. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judging others. Show all posts

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Friday 11 March 2011 - your evaluation

I am not an -ist, sort of person.
I'm not up for being a racist, ageist, sexist or any other fun limiting word of that range.

I'd love to say I don't judge people but of course, that would be a lie, owing to the fact that I'm human and that judging people is what we do to sort them into nifty easy to sort, zip-lock categories in our minds.

But I've found too many people who break social stereotypes to lump them all under one heading. I've met black guys who like classical music; white guys who can jump; blondes who were terribly clever and woman drivers who've knocked the socks off their male counterparts.

So rest assured that I will only ever judge you on the full package that you present. If you're a mean nasty S.O.B. then I don't care what your genetics are, where you came from or where you're going.
You suck!

Everyone else *BIG THUMBS UP* You're ACE!!

Wednesday, March 2, 2011

Thursday 03 March 2011 - judge not less blah blah

Hmmmn, off to meet new people and be judged by them! It's terribly exciting!! Not that I adore being judged mind, especially when people make assumptions based on fleeting glimpses that end up totally and utterly wrong and then you have to sit and smile and not strangle them which is such a waste of a good curtain tie...

But it is interesting to see what people make of you. Do they like you? Hate you? Couldn't care less and keep calling you Peebo for some 'who knows what' reason? And what about the judgmental person themselves? What are they like? How do you judge them? What do you make of the package sitting/standing/lurking in front of you, pretty much doing the same thinking you are?

I love getting a first impression and then working from there to see how right or wrong it was! If it's wrong I shrug my shoulders and accept the upgraded version 'Person 5.0' into my thoughts. If I'm right, I sit and congratulate myself and tell me how marvellous I am.
Sometimes I do that anyway, just cause.

So let me be off and go let the world, or at least a couple hundred out of the billions, have their say! I shall be back tomorrow, either triumphant and glorious or ... nah, I like that first lot, let's go with that!